My story continuation is going to have to wait another while longer. Things at home are ok but very Rocky.
I ve had to draw the line again this week with hubbie on how much i m prepared to put up with.
He is of course listening and accpets what i have to say. Its been working well , little man and I are so much more relaxed in his company and he is very aware of that and we are as a who getting on well and have turned or corner.
The threat of separation still hangs over our heads of course as i ve had to draw the line in the sand of how much his stubborness and business decisions together with stress affect me . But alongside this i ve explained to him that certain decisions he may make i will not be able to cope with mentally
These decisions that he may make are not fair and of his making only. For my sanity and all of our lives, inc little mans, i have said i can not stand by him.
He has accpted that, i ve stood by him in all aspects in the past but if he were to go over the line then he cant expect me to continue on and make myself ill again
It feels comforting to know where we stand with things to be honest and he knows now of my weaknesses and i ve explained my self calmly and with great humility
Pure stubbornness does not warrant any support esp if it affects your life, well being of your self and any chidren.
What a shame....................................
Just hope it ends up all ok and he wont get to that far.