God why am i making so many mistakes, what does it mean?
Am i not capable of working any more, is it all too much for me, do i need to offload ?
And when i am making mistakes do i deserve to be shouted at.
I know i do my best, its all that does matter.
But when its money involved and other people they get so defensive.
think the key is to maintain communication, explan, faults and mistakes, iron things out and if one party is not happy then they should decide to do something about it or request that the person making the mistakes do soemthing so they don tmake any more.
It's how people fall out isn t it, he said she said stuff...
I m not one to get rid,
My mother says " can t be doing with all that " she says to me and get rid of what stressing you out.
if you gave up at the sign of trouble then humans would nt progress would we.
I would nt be sitting in my lovely house, car, garden, little one n a good school, nice hols ect, if i didnt persevere
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Suppose i must talk it out with those around me, not let it stew and move on once again.
When is enough enough though and at what point is it when things don t go right , when do you say thats enough.
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loveslifeloveschocolate
- 2008-04-21 @ 10:20:05
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I think your mother may be right. You are very stressed and depressed and have a lot going on for you. Even people without all that you are going throuh make mistakes. In fact it is a mistake I made a few years ago that made me turn my life around, and it was all due to stress, anxiety and exhaustion.
Thinking positive is not enough, you need practical help and definitely the counsellor. Hopefully counselling will help box up all those issues you have had from when you were working plus other things, put them away and move on. It is going to be a long term project, matter of the mind and heart are never easy and sometimes can hurt.
Finally one of the ways of looking after yourself is giving in occasionally. One taxi trip here and there is not going to make any difference in the scheme of things.
Finally I suggest you make a list of every little thing that is upsetting you. prioritose them in order of importance. This was one of the things that made a big difference to me. I backed off from some unhealthy relationships and looked at ways at making myself more confident. I am still working on that one by the way.
Good luck.